The Talent Equation

A post from veteran educator and interview coach Charlie Margolis.

We are told that talent creates its own opportunities. But it seems that intense desire creates not only its own opportunities, but its own talents.”  – Eric Hoffer, (1902-1983) American social philosopher, author

They were the talented kids; the athletes who ran fast and far, seemingly without effort.  He was the kid in art class who could draw realistically; the girl who played the violin solo in the school orchestra; the pretty girls and the popular guys. Those of us who struggled in mediocrity wished we were them.  Watching our favorite artist, actor or athlete we would think, “I could do that, if only I had his/her talent.”  After all, it looks so easy. Well, not so fast. A closer look reveals that raw talent is perhaps the least of those factors that underscore success?

Recently I was listening to a locally produced NPR program. A group of educators were discussing creativity. One of the panelists emphatically stated, “Talent is a myth!”  It’s certainly not the first time I have heard this idea expressed.  I think it is a kind of magical thinking that just doesn’t correspond with reality. Inferring that anyone can achieve the highest level of performance is unrealistic, at best. You don’t make the Olympics, play in Carnegie Hall or get accepted at MIT without the genetic potential. While inherent talent is part of the equation that determines the ultimate level of performance, it is hardly the only factor. Research scientists, who have investigated this subject, estimate that talent accounts for about 25% of a person’s performance.

Let me show you my cousin’s drawing. He’s so talented,” she insisted.  I’ve seen hundreds – perhaps thousands – of pieces of student artwork. The young man’s portrait was well crafted, though not extraordinary. I politely praised the art and made some encouraging comments meant to be passed on to the burgeoning artist.  To the ‘amateur eye,’ realistic drawing is comparable to alchemy. Those of us who have more experience understand that it is more akin to a skill, which can be learned through instruction and practice. Given the same amount of training and practice, will some people be able to draw more expertly than others? Certainly! Then again, being a skilled draftsman does not make a person a great artist.  Art is singular because of its originality and interpretative ability. Van Gogh honed his drawing skill, which was anything but good in the beginning, through hours of compulsive practice. Talent is finite; motivation knows no limits.

I attended a seminar presented by one of the world’s leading motivational speakers. Ten thousand middle managers listened to his message that nothing less than being the very best in their chosen field was acceptable.  I sat there wondering, is that really possible? UCONN women’s basketball coach Geno Auriemma (Who doesn’t know who he is?) says that his team aims for perfection fully realizing they will never attain it. Is talent important? You can’t play for the Lady Huskies women’s basketball team without a great deal of athletic talent. However, all the talent in the world does not preclude the 500 shots per day many of these women take in practice, every day. When talent, motivation and training meet, there can be a high level of performance. Talent may be the least important factor in the equation. In his book, Blink, Malcolm Gladwell advanced the theory that it takes 10 years and 10,000 hours to develop expertise in any field.

Given the choice between talent and motivation, I would opt for high motivation.  I have never known talent – by itself – to make anyone happy.  The mentality that says first is the only place is sadly mistaken. Stage mothers, hockey fathers and helicopter parents who push their children to extreme levels of participation may be serving their own needs more than their child’s. Young people need to learn intrinsic motivation, resilience, and tenacity. Those are the characteristics which deserve praise and respect. Praise can motivate, if that message is oriented toward effort rather than innate ability. Research demonstrates that children who are praised for their intelligence do not try as hard as those who are praised for their effort. Since effort is under a person’s control, it can lead to resilience.  When praise for being smart does not correspond with performance, it can lead to feelings of helplessness. Children who are praised for their persistence are likely to invest more effort. Praise should be specific and sincere. To the brain, a sincere compliment, for something that has been earned through effort, is like receiving cash. So, admire talent, but praise effort. The capacity to appreciate talent may, itself, be a talent. It certainly makes life more pleasant.

Milking a cow in preschool

Milking a cowWe have been “down on the farm” at preschool these past few weeks, and one of the favorite activities for the children was getting to milk a cow! Ok, not a real cow – but a really cool wooden cow! This was a great way to teach the children about cows and where milk comes from. Children learn best by doing … and they could experience what it is like to milk a cow, much like a farmer would. We were lucky enough to have one of our teachers, Miss Brittany, make this great looking cow!

We filled the red bucket with milk, and the children could gently squeeze the rubber “utters”. They got so excited to see the milk come out!Milking a cow

This same experiment can be done on a smaller scale – using a rubber glove and milk. First, make pin holes in the fingers of a rubber or latex glove (be aware of any latex allergies). Fill the glove with milk and tie the opening of the glove closed. Hold the glove and allow each child to take a turn to make milk come out of the glove into a bucket. You can extend the activity by having the children estimate how many “squeezes” it would take to fill up a glass of milk.

During our Farm week – we also had some farm animals come and visit our school. The highlight was the children had a chance to milk a REAL goat! This was a great hands-on experience – and the children learned of another animal that also produces milk!

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Do you have any fun farm ideas? Share them with us here!

 

Creating a quiet space for infants and toddlers

infants and toddlersThe following post is from information sent to us by Mary Tabb of the Early Childhood Consultation Partnership, which is a wonderful resource that is available to support the social and emotional development of children in your care and in your early childhood program.

Infants and Toddlers often need a soft, quiet, protected place where they can relax and have some space away from loud or busy areas in the classroom. Teaching children to soothe themselves by going to a ‘cozy area’ can help them feel comforted and better able to cope. They may benefit from a ‘cozy area’ to be by themselves while they adjust to events such as drop off or overly noisy activities such as movement or music.

Infant and toddler rooms strive for a comfortable and comforting environment which is more homelike than a typical classroom. These classrooms have soft surfaces and places to sit, lie down, and cuddle up for infants and toddlers seeking comfort and cuddling. Here are some tips for classroom setup:

• Provide a ‘cozy area’ in your classroom that is easily accessible. Allow children to use the ‘cozy area’ freely. This is an area with soft surfaces, cuddly toys, some cushions, a cozy rug, a blanket, and a little sofa or chair. Have a few books available that children can look at and perhaps a toy or two that gives the child the option of some music.

• Self-soothing is an important skill for children to learn. Some children may need time alone to soothe themselves. These are children who may refuse the comfort of a caregiver. They may cry a little, suck a pacifier or thumb, and after a little calming time, rejoin the group willingly. A soft cozy area that children can go to easily can help with this self-soothing process.

Resources:
Organizing Classroom and Outdoor Learning Environments
White, C. S., & Coleman, M. (2000).
Soft Spaces www.communityplaythings.com/resources/articles/softspaces/index.html

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Kids Teaching Kids!

Kids TeachingFor the past couple of years we have had a wonderful insect & reptile expert visit our summer day camp. He is extremely knowledgeable about insects and reptiles, is able to connect with the children, and he speaks with a great deal of passion. What is even more amazing is the fact that he is a seventh grader! He actual is a former preschool student of ours, and has matured into an extraordinary young man.

From a very young age, Matt had a curiosity and love for insects which was supported and nurtured by his parents. By reading dozens of books and mentoring with bug experts, Matt has become an expert himself. His parents have given him opportunities and resources for him to expand his passion. They themselves have also become experts. Matt’s little sister Paige has even become part of the presentation by helping bring in all the totes and boxes, as well as handing him each creature during the “show.”

As our summer campers interacted with Matt, I was thrilled to watch how interested they were, how courageous they were to touch and feel, and how “cool” they thought Matt was. It’s a wonderful site to observe an older child teach a younger child something new.

It got me thinking….why don’t we do this more often in child care? So many of our school age students and/or alum students may have skills and talents that they could share with our younger classes….dance, martial arts, instruments, yoga, drawing, sports. An adult teacher/presenter obviously has advantages; however, it is clear to me that child-teachers have a quality that is unique and wonderful!Kids Teaching

Here is a picture of Matt and his “assistant” Paige sharing the wonders of insects and reptiles with our summer campers! Matt – thanks for a wonderful morning of fun and learning…we are so proud of you!